GIRLS DATING 2010

Some good advice

 

We realize that this may be the first time you have ever considered meeting a woman by using a service such as ours. This section is intended to allow you to benefit from the experience of others. By interviewing numerous men and researching volumes of material, we have compiled a top-twenty list of hints that will prove beneficial in your research for a foreign woman. Even if you are an old hand at this, it's never too late to learn something new

 1. Do Not Send Money!!! Just like anywhere, there are honest people and there are dishonest people. The point of your correspondence is to develop a special relationship with a foreign woman, not to purchase one. We want you to be aware that you may contact women who will ask you for money for one reason or another. Remember it is a matter of pride for any honest Russian and Ukrainian woman that no matter how badly off she may be financially, if she is truly interested in you, she will NOT ask you for money. It is that simple. 
If you are asked for money it should immediately set off alarms and you should proceed very cautiously. There are instances where there may be a valid reason to send money to someone with whom you have been corresponding for some time. In that instance it is recommended that you send it via wire.

 2. Send her the very best photo of yourself that you can find. This is not one of you and your mates drinking down the pub, one of you with your arm around some girl, one with sunglasses, or one you need to squint so hard your eyes fall out to see what you look like. If you don't have a good one, consider having a professional one made. Don't make the mistake of writing to a beautiful woman and sending her a poor quality photo of yourself. You want to know what she looks like...Well, she is as curious about you as you are about her, so try to get her attention by sending her something she will be attracted to...an old, poor quality photo is not the best thing to send to her...

 3. Honesty is the best policy and lies are always discovered. Most of these women are highly educated and they are looking for sincere, honest men who will treat them with love and respect, please don't make the mistake of thinking that they are ignorant or that you can treat them badly, after all, this is why they do not want to marry many of the men from their own country. Treat her like a princess, and she will become your princess. Also remember a Russian or Ukrainian lady is very loyal and if you treat her right, your Russian wife will never leave you because once you are in her heart, you will stay there forever.

 4. Remember when writing your letter that this woman's native language is not English. That doesn't mean she will not be able to understand your letter, but by keeping it simple you will have a much better chance of successfully communicating with her. Try to avoid using four- or five- syllable words; instead of impressing her, you will probably just confuse her.

 5. Write to as many women as possible. By writing many women you greatly increase your chances of success!!! The more attractive a woman, the more letters she will receive so when writing to these women it is especially important to write to as many as possible

 6. This information is there for a reason, you will be wasting your time as well as the lady's by responding to a woman whom you know you will not be compatible with.

 7. Write in Russian if your recipient has difficulty translating English. Its important letters is fully understood, so if there's any doubt as to the English proficiency of the recipient, have the letter translated before sending.

 8. We suggest that you register a separate email account (for example, at Hotmail) for this campaign, so you will be able to track the results, and also close it down when you have found your one and only. Any advertising campaign brings plenty of junk mail, and publishing your real email address is unwise.

 9. Try to keep the initial letter fast-paced. You certainly don't want to be discussing things like marriage and what your children might look like in your first letter! You may want to tell her a little about yourself, where you were raised, and what schools you have attended. Write a little about your interests, hobbies, likes and dislikes. Basically, just write about things that you would normally talk about on a first date.

10. Make sure you ask her plenty of questions about herself in your first letter. People like to know that others are interested in them and their activities. By asking questions about her she will think that you are interested in her as a person and she will want to respond to you immediately.

If you want to get a woman's attention make your letter happy and interesting! Tell her about yourself and where you live, what you like to do for fun, your goals and your ambitions, and especially tell her what you are looking for in a marriage partner, but most of all make it serious, or funny, or romantic. Don't make it dull or sound like a form letter. Women like to know lots of details so try to describe things in a romantic way so she can almost see and feel what it is that you are describing.

11. You may find it useful to do some independent research on the country of origin of the woman you are interested in. Not only will it impress the woman, but it may save you from committing a gaffe. You must always remember that this woman was raised in a totally different culture than our own. Obviously, it is in your best interest to know as much as possible about that culture.

12. Here are some topics for use during telephone conversations. Ask everything about her and forget about yourself. Get as much info as possible.

What is your typical day like?
Where is your apartment?
Do you live with your parents?
Do you have any brothers or sisters?
Can you talk privately?
What is your idea of life in (Your country)?
Do you want children?
Do you want any more children?
If it's not a secret, how old are you?
Did you go to the university?
What is your field of study?
Are you religious?
Do you like cats?
What does a girl wear when meeting her future fiancee for the first time?
How should the man dress?

13. Be prepared to meet your ladies. Unless you are willing to make the journey to meet your chosen lady, there is no real point in writing to a lady, so consider this when you start writing to her. Letter writing is fine, up to a point, until you've got to know her. At some point you have to meet her and decide, or someone else will do it for you and you will have lost her.

14. Don't delay your visit to see her personally. The average time between beginning of e-mail exchanging and the visit to see a lady is about 6 months. Remember that she joined a dating service, not a pen pal club. One visit is worth hundreds of letters.

15. DON∙T send pictures of your houses, cars or boats on the first stages of your correspondence ∓ it will look like you are trying to buy a woman and not want her to fall in love with you for who you are.

16. DON∙T ask woman about love priorities and fantasies in the first letter. Maybe it∙s OK to discuss it on later stage, but it∙s not common in Russia to open your heart and thoughts to a stranger at once.

17. Russian names use unlike many others abbreviations, or ∜pet names�.
When two people are in love, usually they are calling each other with tender and loving names.
In the following table we have placed the most common Russian names and their abbreviations and ∜pet names�.
If you are in correspondence with Russian woman and want to show her a special attention ∓ try to call her ∜pet name� and We bet she would be surprised and pleased.
 

Anastasia

 Nastya, Nastenka, Nastyusha, Nastasya

Alexandra

Sasha, Sashenka, Sashka, Shura, Shurochka

Alla

Allochka, Allushka, Alichik

Alyona

Alyonushka, Alyonka, Alya, Alionchik, Lionchik

Anna

Anya, Anyuta, Anechka, Annushka, Panama

Daria

Dasha, Dashenka, Dashechka, Dashunya, Dashulya

Diana

Dianochka, Dianushka, Dina

Ekaterina

Katya, Katyusha, Katenka, Katerina, Katyushka, Kationok, Katik

Elena

Lena, Lenochka, Lenok, Lenchik, Yelenushka

Eleonora

Elya

Elizaveta

Liza, Lizok, Lizochka, Lizuniya

Elvira

 Elya, Elvirochka, Elva

Eugenia

Zhenya, Zhenka, Zhenechka

Galina

Galochka, Galchonok, Galenka, Galyushka

Inna

Innochka, Innoulya, Innoulenka, Inusya, Inok, Innessa

Irina

Ira, Irinka, Irinochka, Irisha, Irishka, Irinchik, Irunchik

Yulia

Yulenka, Yulka, Yulchik

Ksenia

Ksyusha, Ksyushka, Ksyushenka

Larisa

Lara, Larochka

Lilia

Lilechka, Lilya

Ludmila

Lyuda, Lyusya, Lyudochka, Mila, Milochka

Lyubov

Lyuba, Lyubonka, Lyubasha, Lyubochka

Margarita

Rita, Margaritka, Ritochka, Ritulya, Margo

Maria

Masha, Mashenka, Mashusha, Mashunya

Marina

Marisha, Marinochka, Marishka

Nadezhda

Nadia, Nadenka, Nadyusha, Nadyushka

Natalia

Natashenka, Natshechka, Natusenka, Natusik, Natasha

Nina

Ninochka, Ninok, Ninulya, Ninushka

Oksana

Oksanochka, Ksyusha, Ksyushenka, Ksana

Olesya

Lesya, Lesenka

Olga

Olya, Olenka, Olyushka

Polina

Polya, Polinka, Polik, Polechka

Roza

Rozochka, Rozita, Rozi, Mimoza

Sophia

Sonya, Sonechka, Sophochka, Sophie

Svetlana

Sveta, Svetochka, Svetlanka, Svetik, Svetusik, Svetulia, Konfetik

Tamara

Toma, Tomochka, Tamarka

Tatyana

Tanechka, Tanyushenka, Tanyusha, Tanyushka,

Valentina

Valya, Valyusha, Valyushka, Valenka, Valechka,

Valeria

Lera, Lerchik, Lerunchik, Lerusia, Lerok, Lerunia

Vera

Verochka, Verok, Verunchik

Veronika

Nika, Verunchik

Victoria

Vika, Vikusya, Vikulya,

Vlada

Vladlena, Vladochka, Ponamochka

 
18. Write women who will fit into your lifestyle. If you live in the country, far away from larger cities avoid writing to the ladies who list their hobbies as theater, fashions, etc. Instead write to ones who enjoy nature, animals, may be gardening & outdoor activities.

19. Be patient. This is an important process and the results of the decision that you make will be far reaching and long lasting. Take the time to correspond with many different women before committing to that special one. One of the key features of our service is that we are continuously updating our service with new women, thus giving you new choices. This is an important decisions that you will ever make, so please be patient, be thorough, and most of all, enjoy the process.

20. The last and probably most important tip of all is: These ladies dream about having a caring and loyal husband. They dream about having a happy and loving family with a secure future. These are the reasons why they leave their countries, friends and relatives behind. So don∙t lose sight of the fact that it is morally very difficult for them to leave. They have a strong sense of family and place. Your Russian wife will need your help to feel she has made the right decision in leaving her home to find a new and better one.
           

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Attractive Russian Women


"John, I like you as a friend - but that's all" Are you tired of hearing this from women who have an over-inflated opinion of themselves ? Don't you deserve something better ? Why not do what so many men from the USA and Western Europe are doing today and marry an attractive Russian girl and experience a lifetime of happiness with a partner who is younger, intelligent, attractive and who knows how to appreciate a good man ?

It almost breaks my heart to see on those dating shows, and also in life, men getting on their knees for some real trolls - when if only they knew - they could be walking down the street with a beautiful Russian girl on their arm.... turning heads heads on the way with people saying .."God - how did he manage that ? she's stunning !"

Life is tough - its hard putting in a full days work and paying all the bills - at least you deserve to enjoy it and come home to a beautiful woman at the end of the day.

Don't sit on the fence for too long - just do it ! This situation won't last forever ...Hurry before its too late ! Here's why :-

There are now thousands of agencies on the web today offering Russian Marriage services. These waters are being heavily fished ...before long things are going to change.

Attitudes will change with economic conditions

I saw this back in the Czech Republic during the early 1990's - when it was still 'opening up' to the West. At that time marriage to an American or an Englishmen was a big deal - there were lots of dating agencies for beautiful Czech girls (and they were beautiful) Now there are virtually none. So what happened ?

As the country opened up - it became very easy for girls to meet Western men in their own Country - the nightclubs, cafes and Bistros were full of Westerners - there was no longer any need to join a dating agency to meet a Westerner. Also as visa restrictions were lifted they could travel and work abroad more easily than before.

Their standard of living improved and simply marriage to someone from the West was no longer a big deal.

The same thing will happen in Russia. It will happen with the biggest cities first - Moscow and St. Petersburg. There are already slight indications of it starting to happen but it will take some time.

I often think about a play called "Where have all the Russian girls gone ?". It's set sometime in the next decade. It opens with a lonely middle aged American man, standing beside his suitcase on a deserted railway platform in the middle of Russia. He asks out loud "Where have all the Russian girls gone ?". Along comes shuffling the station guard who replies "you're 10 years too late my friend !".

So to all you guys out there who are thinking of getting married to a Russian girl - my advice is "get out there and do it ! Be a part of history ..find yourself a beautiful Russian wife ! Do it now while there are still some attractive Russian Women left !"

 
 

        

8 Tips for Safe Online Dating


1. Start slow.
Begin by communicating solely via email. "Listen" to your correspondent's words. Be on the lookout for odd behavior or inconsistencies. The person at the other end may not be who or what he/she says. Trust your instincts. If anything makes you uncomfortable, walk away for your own safety and protection. Conduct yourself and your romances in a responsible manner. Don't fall in love at the click of a mouse.

2. Guard your anonymity.
When corresponding with a prospective mate, make sure you don't include identifying information. Never include your last name, real email address, home address, phone number, place of work or any other identifying information in your profile or initial emails. Stop communicating with anyone who pressures you for this information or attempts in any way to trick you into revealing it. Take all the time you need to become comfortable with someone before revealing any personal contact information.

3. Request a photo.
A photo will give you a good idea of the person's appearance, which may prove helpful in achieving a gut feeling about your correspondent. In fact, it's best to view several images of this person in a variety of settings: casual, formal, indoor and outdoors. If he or she continuously comes up with an excuse, it may be because that person has something to hide.

4. Talk via telephone.
A phone call can reveal much about a person's communication and social skills. It is worth the cost of the call to protect your security, but do not give out your personal phone number to a stranger. Try a cell phone number instead. Only when you feel completely comfortable should you furnish your phone number.

5. Meet when YOU are ready.
The beauty of meeting and relating online is that you can gradually collect information and then make a choice about pursuing the relationship in the offline world. You are never obligated to meet anyone, regardless of your level of online intimacy. And even if you do decide to arrange a meeting, you always have the right to change your mind. It's possible that your decision to keep the relationship at the anonymous level is based on a hunch that you can't logically explain. When you're not sure, go with your gut instincts.

6. Select the safest possible environment.
When you make the choice to meet offline, always tell someone where you are going and when you will return. Leave your date's name and telephone number with that person. Never arrange for your date to pick you up at home. Provide your own transportation, meet in a public place at a time when many people are present, and when the date is over, leave on your own as well. A familiar restaurant or coffee shop, at a time when a lot of other people will be present, is often a fine choice. If you decide to move to another location, take your own car. When the timing is appropriate, thank your date for getting together and say goodbye.

7. Take extra caution outside your area.
If you are flying in from another area, arrange for your own car and a hotel room. Do not disclose the name of your hotel and never allow your date to make the arrangements for you. Call your date from the hotel or meet at the location you have already agreed to. If the location seems inappropriate or unsafe, go back to your hotel. Try to contact your date at that location or leave a message on a home machine. Always make sure a friend or family member knows your plans and has your contact information. And if possible, carry a cell phone at all times.

8. Watch for red flags.
Pay attention to any displays of anger, intense frustration or attempts at pressuring or controlling you. Acting in a passive-aggressive manner, making demeaning or disrespectful comments or any physically inappropriate behavior are all red flags. You should also be concerned if your date exhibits any of the following conduct without providing an acceptable explanation:

* Provides inconsistent information about age, interests, appearance, marital status, profession, employment, etc.
* Refuses to speak to you on the phone after establishing ongoing, online intimacy.
* Fails to provide direct answers to direct questions.
* Appears in person to be significantly different from his or her online persona.
* Never introduces you to friends, professional associates or family members.

 

 

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